| This Months Dharma Talk First
Sunday of May, we gathered together at the mission to dedicate our sincere prayer to the
Buddhist guardian deity, Kishimojin whose Indian name was Hariti. She protects whoever
believes in the Buddha Dharma. The Buddha Dharma is, in other words, the Buddha-Wisdom.
So, you need to be a good Buddhist who has the Buddha-Wisdom to be protected by
Kishimojin. I would like to share with you a Buddha-Wisdom to become a better Buddhist.
Before we learn this times Buddha-Wisdom, I would
like to share with you reading from the Four Noble Truths. Please open the green book,
Hasu No Oshie, and go to page 35. Im going to read the Leader's part and you read
the Class's part, please.
"Leader: The Four Noble Truths are the most complete
summary of the entire Dharma. So, if we understand them, we will be good Buddhists. Let us
remember there are only two paths in life. One, the way of happiness; the other, the way
of suffering. The Four Noble Truths clearly point this out.
Leader: The truth of suffering.
Class: Man cannot escape from his destiny of death and
suffering unless he finds a new way of life. Let us awaken to these facts.
Leader: The truth of the origin of suffering.
Class: The causes of suffering are the three defilements:
greed, hatred and ignorance. Let us cleanse ourselves of these errors.
Leader: The truth of the extinction of suffering.
Class: It is true that we can attain perfect happiness and
deliverance from suffering, if we cleanse ourselves of sin, and gain a new life. Let us
live in this hope.
Leader: The truth of the path that leads to the extinction
of suffering.
Class: The path of practice that leads to cessation of sins
is the Noble Eightfold Path; namely, Right View, Right Emotion, Right Conversation, Right
Conduct, Right Living, Right Effort, Right Meditation, and Right Faith. If we follow this
path, we will attain Buddhahood. So let us practice these in our daily life."
Thank you for sharing.
Today, I would like to focus on the truth of suffering.
From what do you suffer? Do you suffer from financial problems? Do you suffer from human
relations? Do you suffer from your childrens education? You suffer from various
kinds of problems in your daily life, dont you? However, in the upshot, Buddha says
that we, including you and me, suffer from four fundamental sufferings, which are
"birth", "aging", "sickness" and "death". The
Buddha says that we can never escape from the four sufferings unless we find a new way of
life as stated in the book of Hasu No Oshie.
So, let us find the new way of life together.
First of all, "birth". Because we were born, we
are now alive and suffer from many problems. Of course, we have not only sufferings but
also happiness in our daily lives. When we are happy, there is no problem. We dont
need any help or dont need to rely on anything. However, our lives are filled with
problems, too. Whenever we face the problems, we always try to escape from them. But, the
Buddha has already taught us that we are going to suffer from the four sufferings with no
exception as long as we are alive. So, what if we accept the problems as well as accepting
the happiness?
Second, let's think about "aging". Being young
is, needless to say, wonderful. Then, is it a sin to get older? Everyone is surely getting
older day by day with no exception. So, what if we think, "being young is great, but
getting older is also good"? If we can accept the aging like this, don't you feel
better, rather than thinking of aging negatively?
Third, let's think about sickness. Being healthy is, of
course, good. Then, is being sick a sin? Buddha teaches us that no one can escape from
getting sick. So, what if we enjoy being in good health, and we accept the sickness, too?
Lastly, let's think about death. This is the ultimate
subject for us. No one wants to die. However, as long as we are human beings, we are going
to die someday with no exception. Death is fearful and scary to anyone, of course. But, if
we think of death calmly, we know that everyone is going to die someday. Thats
inevitable. We understand that in our heads, but, we still dont think, or we
dont want to think that we are really going to die. Anyway, let's try to accept this
truth. It doesnt matter if you like it or not. Then, dont you feel gratitude
for being alive at this moment? Thinking of death seriously should make you feel grateful
for being alive. How lucky we are! How precious our lives are! Then, if you could live
with gratitude the rest of your life, death will become more acceptable. When the moment
of death comes, if you can say, "Ive lived my life with gratitude, so
theres no regret". If you can die like this, dont you think that you
would be very happy?
Finding a new way of life, stated in the Four Noble Truths,
means to accept the sufferings as a part of our lives. In order to do that, you should be
ready to face the four sufferings. Dont think of escaping, but accepting them.
At my first Dharma Talk, I said that we could apply the
Four Noble Truths to any kind of problems to help us accept.
We recently had a very sad news of terrible incident
happened on April 6, 2007 at the Virginia Tech. A gunman shot and killed thirty-two people
and after that he killed himself. I would like to express my deepest prayers to their
parents, families and friends. This is not an incident that happened somewhere far away.
This could happen anywhere and to anyone. I have three children and in the near future,
they might be on campuses of colleges somewhere. If that should happen to me, what shall I
do? How does the Buddha Dharma explain it? What can we learn from the incident? Lets
see the Four Noble Truths to help us with this tragedy.
What was the suffering? It was inside the gunman. He was
suffering. When he was eight years old, he came to the United States with his parents and
sister. At first he felt discriminated at school because he couldn't speak English. Since
then, he had been suffering.
Then what was the cause of the suffering? It was hatred
inside him. That's one of the three poisons of human beings according to the Buddha
Dharma. The hatred inside him was growing and growing because his parents were not aware
of his suffering, and he had no friend to talk to. He and his family could not blow out
the flame of hatred inside him. So, this failure happened at where they should have blown
out the flame of hatred inside the man.
Then, what about thirty-two victims? How can their parents
and families accept and understand this? Now, they are suffering from the loss of their
beloved ones. The poison of hatred has been produced inside them this time. The Buddha
says in an ancient sutra called Udănavarga that:
"The hatred never comes to an end if you repay the
hatred with the hatred. Therefore, the person who knows the Buddha Dharma throws away the
hatred."
Compassion is very important for Buddhists. We should never
despise anyone because we are all related to each other. If someone is suffering, be
compassionate and help that person. It is because everyone is related to each other.
What we learned this time are the four sufferings, which
are birth, aging, sickness and death. These sufferings are the truth of suffering. Next
time, let us share learning the second of the Four Noble Truths, the cause of suffering. |